I can't believe you quote by Friedrich Nietzsche
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I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.

Friedrich Nietzsche

Big or small. Intentional or unintentional. To harm or to protect. Whatever the reason, when we lie to someone, we not only hurt others’ feelings and trust in us but also create guilt, stress, and questions about our own integrity. Lying is the worst thing we can do to damage our relationships, personal or professional.

It’s not the lie that harms, but the doubt it creates in future trust that damages emotions and relationships.

When You Can’t Believe Others – The Problem

We cannot be 100% honest all the time; this is the most common reason we give to ourselves whenever other confronts us or under self-reflection. And that is true, but things go wrong when you repeatedly share false information. It causes more emotional distress and negativity, especially when you face similar situations.

On the side of a person being lied to, the feeling of hurt and broken trust deepens and extends to relationships, emotional well-being, and integrity.
On the side of the person telling the lies, fear of being discovered and the stress of living a double life results in guilt and lower self-esteem.

What can you do?

Self-reflection is the starting point. It is crucial to identify the underlying motives behind dishonesty – why. Acknowledgment and sincere apologies follow.

Rebuilding trust requires time, effort, boundaries, self-forgiveness, and learning from mistakes.

Surbhi Mahnot

Surbhi Mahnot

Surbhi Mahnot is the owner of this blog. She has work experience of almost 10 years in the IT industry in varied roles. At present, she is working full-time on this blog. She is passionate about the importance of personal growth in individual and work life, which reflects in her writing too. Travelling, reading, and shopping are her core interest besides work.