PAAR: Your Personal Goal Setting Template
Download The PAAR Goal Setting Template to achieve personal goals with effective habits & systems – for people who actually want to follow through
Stop doubting yourself and make data-driven decisions that reflect your values using the decision lens template.

Should you take that new job offer or stay where you are?
Is now the right time to invest in that business opportunity?
Should you focus on growing your side hustle or keep your stable career?
Most life decisions aren’t confusing because you lack options.
They are confusing because every option looks reasonable, and you don’t know which one fits your life right now. That’s exactly what the Decision Lens Template is built for.
This free Excel/Google Sheets template allows you to make clear, value-driven decisions using weighted criteria analysis. Unlike typical systems, it considers shifting priorities and the emotional aspects of choices. For instance, at times, mental peace may take precedence over financial gain.
This tool embraces the dynamic nature of our lives, helping you navigate decisions with confidence. Let’s explore the possibilities!
The Decision Lens is based on established decision science principles, Multi-Criteria Decision Analysis (MCDA), dual-process theory, and values-based decision-making.
It is a structured decision-making workbook that helps you:
The Decision Lens template is designed to help address four common struggles: decision paralysis, equal-weighting mistakes, gut vs. logic conflicts, and forgetting past lessons.
Think of it as your personal decision-making consultant, built into a spreadsheet.
Example: When choosing between job offers:
The Decision Lens is the “Goldilocks” solution, not too simple, not too complex, just right for important decisions.
Your zip package consists of the following files:
Licensing: All the rights of the template remain with TheBlogRelay.com. DO NOT sell/modify/re-distribute for any commercial, non-commercial, educational or other purposes without our consent. This copy is licensed for your personal use only.
“The hardest thing about making a decision is knowing that you won’t know what would have happened if you chose differently.”
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1. What if I have only two options or more than three choices?
If you have only two options, simply leave the third option blank. If you have more than three choices, shortlist the top three realistic options first — limiting choices improves clarity and reduces overthinking.
2. Can I customize more than the defined criteria?
The template is intentionally limited to seven criteria (six preset + one custom). Adding more tends to create confusion and false precision.
3. Will I get support if I need help using the template?
Yes. If you face any issues or have questions, you can reach out via the support details shared on the download page. Basic guidance and troubleshooting support are included.
4. What if formulas aren’t working or results look incorrect?
Most issues occur when formulas or rows are edited accidentally. Make sure you only edit input cells. If something breaks, request a re-download of a fresh copy from the support team.
A good decision isn’t the easiest one. It’s the one you understand clearly and can stand by, even if it’s hard.
"Simple, practical, and surprisingly insightful. I could immediately see my default conflict style and where I needed to adapt."
"Seeing my options side by side made the decision much less emotional and far more practical."
Make a copy (Google Sheets/Trello) or download the file (Excel), replace the sample content with your own, and start filling it in. No special setup is required.
Yes. You can change the text, categories, colors, and layout to fit your needs. Avoid editing formulas as they can break the entire flow.
Yes. Each template lists the software it's designed to work with.
No. The template doesn't collect, store, or share your data. Everything stays in your own files or workspace.
No. Personal use only unless otherwise stated. You may not share, redistribute, resell, or distribute modified versions without permission.